Rising in Love
A
Philosophy of Being
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Rising in love Contents
Introduction and overview
The spiritual dimension About this book The
beginnings Introduction Guilt and innocence in relationships The balance One: Sitting on the fence Completeness Two: The helper syndrome Three: Exchange Passing on The golden ball Gratitude Only thanking Homecoming Happiness Equilibrium Injury and loss The way out Helplessness Double displacement The avenger
Forgiveness
The second round Reconciliation The Aha- Experience Suffering Good and bad Belonging to us Belonging elsewhere Fate Humility Order and abundance The limits of conscience The answer Guilt and innocence Preconditions The Difference Different relationships Order Appearances The players The spell Belonging Consideration Loyalty Making room Loyalty and illness Boundaries Goodness Family conscious The right to belong Repetition compulsion Order of rank The longing The trembling The fear Gone astray The atonement The solution The insight The path Orders of love between parents
and children and within a group Order and love Different orders Parents and children The Roman fountain Honouring The gift of life Thanksgiving at the morning of life Refusal Something special What our parents give us What belongs to our parents Arrogance The community of fate Kith and kin The ties of kinship Completeness Tribal liability The equal right to belong The Orders of love Orders of love between man and
woman and in relation to the greater whole Man and woman Father and mother Desire The act of love The ties between husband and wife Jealousy The ties of the flesh The basso continuo The deficit Father’s son and mother’s daughter Animus and Anima On both sides Following and serving Equality Measures of exchange Different patterns of relating Entanglements Commitment Relinquishing
As if The
spiritual conscience
Introduction The
different consciences
The personal conscience a. Belonging b. Good and Bad
The collective conscience
a.
Completeness b. The instinct c. Belonging beyond death d. Who belongs? e. Only love resolves f. Who else belongs to the
family? g. The balance h. Atonement and penance
i.
Revenge
j. Healing
k.
The law of priority l. The violation of the law of priority and the consequences
m. The scope of the
collective conscience
The spiritual conscience The different consciences and family-constellations The
spiritual conscience
a. The distinctions among the different consciences
b. The spiritual family-constellations The
personal conscience The
collective conscience Conclusions
Contemplations
Burning
away
Guidance
The
quest
Goodwill
Expectations
Ahead
of us
Lightness
In
harmony
Being
there
Awareness
The
bond What
causes illness in families and what heals Introduction Love that brings illness and
love that heals Family loyalty and its consequences Similarity and balance Illness follows the soul “Better me than you” Love with open eyes “Me for you” “Even if you go, I’ll stay” “I will follow you” “I will go on living for a little while” Misleading hopes Love that heals Illness as atonement Compensation through penance is misfortune doubled Compensation through acceptance and reconciling action Doing penance instead of relating Guilt comes to an end on this earth Illness as vicarious penance Illness as the result of refusing to take one’s parents Honouring parents Story: Emptiness Further publications on healing Health
and healing from a spiritual perspective
The love of
the spirit
Loving our parents the spiritual way The child The other love Meditation: The farewell The path The moment Injured equality The entanglement The solution Guilt and atonement The spiritual level Psychoses, the love at the
abyss An example What leads to psychosis Psychoses as perpetrators, psychotics as victims Psychoses as a family problem The helpers Exercise: the spiritual love Our love at the abyss The love of the unconscious conscience Goodwill for all Entanglement Knowing love The law of priority Our blind love The path of purification Meditation: Love that leads
away from the abyss The circle Peace to the dead Freedom Speech disorders Stammering and schizophrenia Stammering in fear of an internalized person Stammering because a family secret is not permitted to come to light Relief Reconciling what is in opposition Exercise for the stammerer: “You and I- both of us.” How we grow Exercise: Reconciliation in the soul Example: Stammering and schizophrenia Explanations Saying the words Naming things Words of creative truth Autism Publications on Psychoses and
speech disorders Spiritual family-constellations
in one sentence The procedure Example: a 12-year old boy has a nervous tick The participant nods Example: a 40-year old man with diarrhea Example: a 15-year old boy injures himself and has panic attacks Example: a 35-year old woman can only take liquid food Example: a 37-year old man has been paralyzed on right side for one year The inner movement
Meditation: Our own sentence Short supervisions The future A boy looses his speech Exercise: Going with the spirit Helping
in resonance with the whole
Preliminary remarks Helping as a profession Helping as giving and taking Professional helping When are we permitted to help? Helping with respect Safe helping
Helping others to grow Orders of helping Helping, what does it mean? Helping as balance and helping as a flow Giving only what we have and taking what we need Remaining within the realm of possibility The prototype of helping: parents and children Helping among equals Considering the client’s whole family Helping without judging Helping beyond good and bad Helping without regret Helping in harmony with great challenges A special perception
Observation, perception, insight, intuition, resonance Helping in resonance with the
soul The therapeutic attitude The questions to ask the client The beginning of love Love and strength The love of the helper The embracing and containing soul Simple psychotherapy
Love and fate Helping in resonance with the family Helping in resonance with the parents Resonance with our own family Resonance with other families Resonance with other helpers
Goodwill How helping succeeds The last place The order of priority Greatness The therapeutic relationship Taking action Control In the service of life Eagerness Resonance and courage Power struggles Toughness Empathy Systemic empathy The great soul Non-doing The night of the soul Refusing to act The warrior Winning and loosing Opposites Mistakes The well Images that ease The initial image The images of healing Two kinds of feelings Primary feelings Dramatic feelings Dreams The kind eye and the evil eye Helping that makes a difference The matter at hand Short and precise A matter of life and death The farthest bounds Respect Recollection Another dimension Humility Having pity The disrupted movement towards mother Letting go of the dead Actions towards resolution Fear Caution The river Helping between equals Above and below Taking action Moaning Incidents Inner family-constellations Helping by handing over Truth brought to light Fate The scope of personal freedom Our family as fate The line of generations The healing power The great fate Early death Spiritual
family-constellations Introduction What is new in spiritual family-constellations? The philosophy The body The soul The human spirit The creative spirit Spiritual family-constellations The spiritual field The movements of the spirit The family’s spiritual field Field and soul The family soul Conscience Justice Spirit in captivity The phenomenological path of
insight The mode of proceeding
Meditation: the distance The soul The other direction Deeply serious The scope The lost soul Clarity Restoring
severed connections In our family In the client’s family Dissonance and resonance Family-constellations of a
different kind Wishes Dimensions of helping The presence of non- doing Beginners Trusting the soul Protection The incomplete Growing in accord Non-doing Taking different roads A story: knowing and knowledge Further publications on helping Man
and woman
Man and woman from a spiritual
perspective Respect Consent The love of the spirit Faithfulness Who follows whom? Example: Looking beyond the partner Exercise: Going with the spirit Lenience
Example: Happiness that lasts Further
publications on the topic: Man and woman Children
in distress
All children are good
Meditation: Us as difficult children A story for an orphan child
Helping children Example: disabled child: Now
I agree Introduction The constellation Example: aborted children are
represented The consequences for the woman The effects on the children Consequences for the partner relationships References for books and videos on the subject children in distress Large scale conflicts
Introduction
References for publications on reconciliation Major conflict The will to annihilate Displacement of the will to destroy Justice Conscience The threat of the new Internalizing the rejected The field Field and conscience Madness Summary The great peace Love Exchange The shared conscience Powerlessness The triumph The insight Inner peace The perception Another conscience Another love
(Reconciliation
between peoples
Example: Constellation for Hungary The experiences of Hungary’s representative)
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