Translations of some of Bert's recent books

Here I will be listing the contents of the books 

Rising in Love
    A Philosophy of Being

family-Constellations,index.htm

 

  Rising in love 
A  Philosophy of Being

Contents

 

Introduction and overview

   The spiritual dimension

    Freedom

    Worries and concerns

    The future and the Now

    Love

About this book

The beginnings

Introduction

Guilt and innocence in relationships

    The balance

    One: Sitting on the fence

    Completeness

    Two: The helper syndrome

   Three: Exchange

    Passing on

    The golden ball

    Gratitude

    Only thanking

    Homecoming

    Happiness

    Equilibrium

    Injury and loss

    The way out

    Helplessness

    Double displacement

    The avenger

     Forgiveness

     The second round

    Reconciliation 

    The Aha- Experience

    Suffering

    Good and bad

    Belonging to us

    Belonging elsewhere

    Fate

    Humility

    Order and abundance

The limits of conscience

    The answer

    Guilt and innocence

    Preconditions

    The Difference

    Different relationships

    Order

    Appearances

    The players

    The spell

    Belonging

    Consideration

    Loyalty

    Making room

    Loyalty and illness

    Boundaries

    Goodness

    Family conscious

    The right to belong

    Repetition compulsion

    Order of rank

    The longing

    The trembling

    The fear

    Gone astray

    The atonement

    The solution

    The insight

    The path

Orders of love between parents and children and within a group

    Order and love

    Different orders

    Parents and children

    The Roman fountain

    Honouring

    The gift of life

    Thanksgiving at the morning of life

    Refusal

    Something special

    What our parents give us

    What belongs to our parents

    Arrogance

    The community of fate

    Kith and kin

    The ties of kinship

    Completeness 

    Tribal liability

    The equal right to belong

    The Orders of love

 

Orders of love between man and woman and in relation to the greater whole

    Man and woman

     Father and mother

     Desire

     The act of love

    The ties between husband and wife

    Jealousy

    The ties of the flesh

    The basso continuo

    The deficit

    Father’s son and mother’s daughter

    Animus and Anima

    On both sides

    Following and serving

    Equality

    Measures of exchange

    Different patterns of relating

    Entanglements

    Commitment

    Relinquishing

    As if

The spiritual conscience

 

Introduction

The different consciences

  The personal conscience

a. Belonging

b. Good and Bad

  The collective conscience

   a. Completeness  

b. The instinct

c. Belonging beyond death

d. Who belongs?

e. Only love resolves

f. Who else belongs to the family?

g. The balance

h. Atonement and penance

   i.  Revenge

   j.  Healing

   k. The law of priority

  l.  The violation of the law of priority and the consequences

   m. The scope of the collective conscience

   The spiritual conscience

The different consciences and family-constellations

 The spiritual conscience

      a. The distinctions among the different consciences

      b. The spiritual family-constellations

    The personal conscience

    The collective conscience

    Conclusions  

Contemplations

    Burning away

    Guidance

    The quest

    Goodwill

    Expectations

    Ahead of us

    Lightness

    In harmony

    Being there

    Awareness

    The bond

 

What causes illness in families and what heals

Introduction

Love that brings illness and love that heals

    Family loyalty and its consequences  

    Similarity and balance    

    Illness follows the soul

    “Better me than you”

    Love with open eyes

    “Me for you”

    “Even if you go, I’ll stay”

    “I will follow you”

    “I will go on living for a little while”

    Misleading hopes

    Love that heals

    Illness as atonement

    Compensation through penance is misfortune doubled

    Compensation through acceptance and reconciling action

    Doing penance instead of relating

    Guilt comes to an end on this earth

    Illness as vicarious penance

    Illness as the result of refusing to take one’s parents

    Honouring parents

    Story: Emptiness

Further publications on healing

Health and healing from a spiritual perspective

The love of the spirit

 

Loving our parents the spiritual way

    The child

    The other love

     Meditation: The farewell

    The path

    The moment

Injured equality

    The entanglement

    The solution

    Guilt and atonement

    The spiritual level

Psychoses, the love at the abyss

    An example

    What leads to psychosis

    Psychoses as perpetrators, psychotics as victims

    Psychoses as a family problem

    The helpers

    Exercise: the spiritual love

Our love at the abyss

    The love of the unconscious conscience

    Goodwill for all

    Entanglement

    Knowing love

    The law of priority

    Our blind love

    The path of purification

Meditation: Love that leads away from the abyss

    The circle

    Peace to the dead

    Freedom

Speech disorders: dissonant voices in tune with the unseen

    Stammering and schizophrenia

    Stammering in fear of an internalized person

    Stammering because a family secret is not permitted to come to light

    Relief

    Reconciling what is in opposition

    Exercise for the stammerer: “You and I- both of us.”

     How we grow

    Exercise: Reconciliation in the soul

    Example: Stammering and schizophrenia

    Explanations

    Saying the words

    Naming things

    Words of creative truth

    Autism

Publications on Psychoses and speech disorders

Spiritual family-constellations in one sentence

    The procedure

    Example: a 12-year old boy has a nervous tick

    The participant nods

    Example: a 40-year old man with diarrhea

    Example: a 15-year old boy injures himself and  has panic attacks

    Example:  a 35-year old woman can only take liquid food

    Example: a 37-year old man has been paralyzed on right side for one year        

    The inner movement

    Meditation: Our own sentence

Short supervisions

    The future

    A boy looses his speech

    Exercise: Going with the spirit

Helping in resonance with the whole

Preliminary remarks

Helping as a profession

    Helping as giving and taking

    Professional helping

    When are we permitted to help?

    Helping with respect

    Safe helping

    Helping others to grow

Orders of helping

    Helping, what does it mean?

    Helping as balance and helping as a flow

    Giving only what we have and taking what we need

    Remaining within the realm of possibility

    The prototype of helping: parents and children

    Helping among equals

    Considering  the client’s whole family

    Helping without judging

    Helping beyond good and bad

    Helping without regret

    Helping in harmony with great challenges

    A special perception

    Observation, perception, insight, intuition, resonance

Helping in resonance with the soul

    The therapeutic attitude

    The questions to ask the client

    The beginning of love

    Love and strength

    The love of the helper

    The embracing and containing soul

    Simple psychotherapy

    Love and fate

Helping in resonance with the family

    Helping in resonance with the parents

    Resonance with our own family

    Resonance with other families

    Resonance with other helpers

    Goodwill

How helping succeeds

    The last place

    The order of priority

    Greatness

The therapeutic relationship

    Taking action

    Control

    In the service of life

    Eagerness

    Resonance and courage

    Power struggles

    Toughness

    Empathy

    Systemic empathy

The great soul

    Non-doing

    The night of the soul

    Refusing to act

    The warrior

    Winning and loosing

    Opposites

    Mistakes

    The well

Images that ease

    The initial image

    The images of healing

Two kinds of feelings

    Primary feelings

    Dramatic feelings

    Dreams

    The kind eye and the evil eye

Helping that makes a difference

    The matter at hand

    Short and precise

    A matter of life and death

    The farthest bounds

    Respect

    Recollection

    Another dimension

    Humility

    Having pity

    The disrupted movement towards mother

    Letting go of the dead

    Actions towards resolution

    Fear

    Caution

    The river

Helping between equals

    Above and below

    Taking action

    Moaning

    Incidents

Inner family-constellations

    Helping by handing over

    Truth brought to light

Fate

    The scope of personal freedom

    Our family as fate

    The line of generations

    The healing power

    The great fate

    Early death

Spiritual family-constellations

    Introduction

    What is new in spiritual family-constellations?

The philosophy   

    The body

    The soul

    The human spirit

    The creative spirit

Spiritual family-constellations

    The spiritual field

    The movements of the spirit

    The family’s spiritual field

    Field and soul

    The family soul

    Conscience

    Justice

    Spirit in captivity

 

The phenomenological path of insight

    The mode of proceeding

    Meditation: the distance

The soul

    The other direction

    Deeply serious

    The scope

    The lost soul

    Clarity 

 Restoring severed connections

    In our family

    In the client’s family

    Dissonance and resonance

Family-constellations of a different kind

    Wishes

    Dimensions of helping

    The presence of non- doing

    Beginners

    Trusting the soul

    Protection

    The incomplete

    Growing in accord

    Non-doing

    Taking different roads

    A story: knowing and knowledge

Further publications on helping

Man and woman

Man and woman from a spiritual perspective

    Respect

    Consent

    The love of the spirit

    Faithfulness

    Who follows whom?

    Example: Looking beyond the partner

    Exercise: Going with the spirit

    Lenience

    Example: Happiness that lasts

Further publications on the topic: Man and woman

Children in distress

All children are good

    Meditation: Us as difficult children

A story for an orphan child

    Helping children

Example: disabled child: Now  I agree

    Introduction

    The constellation

Example: aborted children are represented

    The consequences for the woman

    The effects on the children

    Consequences for the partner relationships

References for books and videos on the subject children in distress

Large scale conflicts

Introduction

    References for publications on reconciliation

Major conflict

    The will to annihilate

    Displacement of the will to destroy

    Justice

    Conscience

    The threat of the new

    Internalizing the rejected

    The field

     Field and conscience

     Madness

    Summary

The great peace

    Love

    Exchange

    The shared conscience

    Powerlessness

    The triumph

    The insight

    Inner peace

    The perception

    Another conscience

    Another love

   (Reconciliation between peoples    

   Example: Constellation for Hungary

   The experiences of Hungary’s representative)

   (This section was taken out again because it proved too difficult to follow a 
    silent country constellation just through written words)

    Peace to the peoples

   Story: A Change of heart (or: The turning point)

 

Spiritual religion

   Foreword

   The love of God

   God and the gods

   In His Image

   The other God

Example: Jesus and Caiaphas

    Introduction

    Example: Ishmael and Isaac

    Caiaphas and Jesus

    The spiritual path of insight

    The constellation

    Reflections

    Story: The turning point

 References to publications on the theme of religion

 

Reflections

Put your house in order

On the lookout

Freedom

Arrived

Life going on and on

Withdrawal

Peace

Enough

Gone

Epilogue